SORRY THIS IS A BIT LONG JUST WANT YOU TOO KNOW THE WHOLE STORY AND NOT JUST TID BITS

about 3 -4 months ago i met a guy well he wanted to get together and hang out he wanted to take me out but i have kids at home and generally dont have a sitter so i invited him over to watch a movie after the kids went to bed ,we got along great, were able to have a conversation and we started goofing around well goofing and horsing around turned into fooling around which got heated alot faster than i expected i would let it . for the last 3 months or so we have been friends with benefits when he comes over its not just a jump right into the sack thing though, he wants to hold hands and hold me and watch tv and talk but before the night is thru yeah we end up in the sack get the job done so to say and then we have a cig he holds me for a while and we talk and then he heads home. Ussually he stops into my work on his break at least 2 -3 times a week on one of his breaks to say hi and from time to time we talk on the net b.s. and or over the phone. Well a bout a week and a half ago i was on phone with him and mentioned i was going away for the weekend and this is where i start getting confused he asked me if i was gonna cheat on him and im like umm i didnt know i was dating you and he says oh you didnt? i said uhh no i thought you were just in it for the sex and he says oh yeah i am. well i get home from my weekend away and noticed that he called while i was gone so i returned his call he says well i drove by your place and i was thinking about you so i thought i would call and say hi well we started talking and b.s. and then out of no where he says you have feelings for me don't you? I was just in shock and didnt know what to say and just kind of brushed it off then yesturday on the net he says to me out of no where. You love me dont't you? so being kind of frustrated i just kinda straight up told him what my feelings for him were i told him i didn't love him but there were feelings there that were stronger than just a friend. well he tells me that he enjoys spending time with me and talking with me and just hanging out with me in general and then he also had to mention that he enjoyed the sex tooo... ahh frustration...
so im confused why is he saying all of this stuff all of a sudden i feel as if maybe he is hinting at something but i don't know really im comming out of a messy divorce a very bad marrage and i just cant read men anymore soo if you all could ADVICE PLEASE